Christ-Centered • Los Gatos, CA • Silicon Valley • In-Person Ministry

Every Man Needs a BrotherWho Won't Back Down.

"Iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another."— Proverbs 27:17

Why Men Stay Stuck

When an elephant is young and small, trainers stake it to the ground with a rope it cannot break. It pulls and pulls — and eventually stops trying. When that elephant grows to full strength, the same thin rope holds it in place. Not because it cannot break free. Because it was trained to believe it cannot.

Most men are not held by the struggle itself. They are held by a belief — set in place years ago — that this is just who they are. That they have always been this way. That they always will be.

Man standing on a mountain summit overlooking the valley

Who We Are

You Are Not Alone. Research Surveys Tell Us That More Than Half of the World Is in This Battle at Some Level.

Research suggests that struggles with pornography and sexual integrity affect more than half the global population. That means the man sitting next to you at work, at church, at the game — he may be in the same battle.

This is one of the most winnable battles a man can fight — when he fights it with the right foundation. For us, that foundation is Christ. Not as a slogan, but as the source of the grace, truth, and accountability that actually changes men from the inside out.

Warrior Men's Group is a brotherhood of Christ-following men who decided to stop going it alone — and started winning together. We are an in-person ministry. We meet weekly in Los Gatos. Come as you are. Leave stronger than you arrived.

Research & Sources

General Social Survey (2022): Research using this nationally representative U.S. survey reports that approximately 65% of American men acknowledged viewing pornography during the preceding year. This measures use, not addiction.

World Health Organization (ICD-11): Recognizes compulsive sexual behaviour disorder as a clinically significant condition involving persistent difficulty controlling sexual behavior.

Pew Research Center (2026): Research examining Americans' moral attitudes toward pornography, including differences among religious groups.

General Social Survey Research Review|World Health Organization|Pew Research Center

"For freedom Christ has set us free. That's not a promise for later. It's available now."
Silhouette of three men walking together in a line across a sunlit ridge at golden hour

The Battlefield

You're Not the Only One in This Fight. Far From It.

Pornography and sexual integrity struggles affect an estimated 50–70% of men globally. This isn't a fringe issue — it's a human one. The men in this group aren't outliers. They're ordinary men who made an extraordinary decision: to stop going it alone and start winning with brothers beside them.

01

Know the Battlefield

Understanding what you're up against is the first move. We don't shame the struggle — we study it, name it, and take away its power.

02

Fight With Brothers

Proverbs 27:17 isn't motivational poetry — it's a design principle. Christ-centered brotherhood creates the kind of honesty and trust that makes lasting change not just possible, but inevitable.

03

Live in Freedom

Christ promises freedom — not just behavior management. The men who walk through this program discover what that freedom actually looks and feels like, and they don't go back.

The Program

A Four-Part Journey, Not a One-Time Fix.

We walk every man through Troy Haas's four-part curriculum, in step with brothers who share the same foundation — moving from first honesty, to real accountability, to a freedom that holds up over the long run.

Where Most Men Start
First Steps book cover by Troy Haas
01 4 Weeks

A short, interactive introduction that lays the groundwork — helping a man start being honest with himself, with God, with his family, and with the brothers around him.

Copies are in stock — you'll leave your first conversation with Dan holding this book, ready to start.

Building for Freedom book cover by Troy Haas
02 15 Weeks

Our flagship, structured study grounded in Scripture. Week by week, men build real insight and real accountability, and start living from who Christ says they are — not what the struggle has told them.

Walking in Freedom Trail Guide 1 book cover by Troy Haas
03 Trail Guide 1

For men ready to go deeper. This guide builds emotional awareness and the habit of authenticity — with themselves, with God, and with the people closest to them.

Walking in Freedom Trail Guide 2 book cover by Troy Haas
04 Trail Guide 2

Freedom isn't a straight line. This guide equips men to recognize setbacks for what they are, work through them with their brothers, and keep walking forward.

Curriculum materials by Troy Haas.

What Happens Next

The Men Change.
And the People Around Them Notice.

The work men do in this group doesn't stay in the meeting room. It comes home with them. It shows up in how they listen, how they lead, how they love.

Wives notice first. They can't always name what changed — but they know their husband is more present, more honest, more himself than he has been in years.

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There is more man inside him now. I don't know exactly what happened in that group — but this is the man I always knew was in there. This is the man I need.

A Warrior's Wife • Los Gatos

Shared with permission. Name withheld to protect privacy.

Los Gatos, CA • Weekly Meetings

We Made It Easy to Take the First Step.

We made it easy. One conversation with Dan — no clinical intake process, no pressure. Just an honest conversation between two followers of Christ, to make sure this is the right fit and you feel at home before your first meeting.

This group is built on a shared faith in Jesus Christ. If that's your foundation too, you'll find brothers here who get it. If you're still exploring faith, Dan is glad to point you toward the right resources for where you are.

Wives and family members — reach out too. Dan will help you find the right path forward.

Where We Meet

Venture Christian Church • Los Gatos

A Gracious Host. A Brotherhood of Our Own.

Warrior Men's Group is an independent ministry. We meet weekly at Venture Christian Church — a non-denominational church in Los Gatos that has graciously opened its doors to our group. We are grateful for their hospitality and the shared foundation of faith that makes this partnership possible.

You don't need to be a Venture member to join. Warrior Men's Group is open to any man who shares a faith in Christ and is ready to stop going it alone.

Take the First Step

You Don't Have to Do This Alone. You Never Did.

You don't need to have it all figured out. You just need a shared faith in Christ and a willingness to stop going it alone. That's enough to start.